Tuesday, December 25, 2007
Christmas
“Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is Christ the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger. Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying, Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace to men on whom his favor rests.”
- Luke 2:11-14
Monday, December 24, 2007
Silent Night
Silent night, holy night,
All is calm, all is bright
Round yon virgin mother and child.
Holy infant so tender and mild,
Sleep in heavenly peace.
Sleep in heavenly peace.
Silent night, holy night,
Shepherds quake at the sight,
Glories stream from heaven afar,
Heavenly hosts sing alleluia;
Christ the Savior, is born!
Christ the Savior, is born!
Silent night, holy night,
Son of God, love's pure light
Radiant beams from thy holy face,
With the dawn of redeeming grace,
Jesus, Lord, at thy birth.
Jesus, Lord, at thy birth.
"But the angel said to her, Do not be afraid, Mary, you have found favor with God. You will be with child and give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David, and he will reign over the house of Jacob forever; his kingdom will never end."
- Luke 1:30-33
Saturday, December 22, 2007
Memories
About this time each year, around Christmas, I begin missing my Mom more than at any other time of the year. My Mom made Christmas very special. It was a time of her and I decorating the tree. A time of us making Christmas cookies together. She always made many different kinds of cookies and fudge, and especially two of my favorites - chocolate covered raisins and chocolate covered cherries. I can still remember setting the dining room table for Christmas Eve dinners, using the expensive china and the polished silverware, and the dark red water goblets. We would open presents as a family after dinner, with me usually getting to play Santa by passing out the gifts to everyone. I would sit in front of our Christmas tree for hours, listening to my Mom's Christmas albums, late into the night. Christmas morning was spent eating a large meal, which included homemade caramel rolls.
Christmas is a time for being thankful for the birth of our Savior, and of being thankful for what we do have, but for me it is also a time of missing my Mom and of reflecting on the past. It has often been a sad time, spent missing her, and of wanting a family of my own to make the holidays bright and cheerful again.
Tonight, I decided to watch one of my favorite movies, The Family Stone. It is about a disfunctional, yet very functional family, and a glimpse into the lives of each of its members. I was reminded once again of my Mom, and of how much I miss her smile, her laugh, her touch, and her hugs. Please be sure to wish your Mom a Merry Christmas for me, and tell her that you love her and are thankful for her.
Friday, December 21, 2007
Desire
This is a quote from Garrison Keillor's website (A Prairie Home Companion), and a rather fitting one for the Holidays! Happy Friday!
"Craving only causes frustration, intense desire makes the object recede. If the game is really important, you're going to lose. If you're wildly in love, you're going to lose and you know it. The trick is to keep it from being that important. Be cool. Don't want it that much. Want it less. When you get to where you don't want it at all, then you're more likely to get it. And if you don't get it, you don't care so much."
- Garrison Keillor
"Craving only causes frustration, intense desire makes the object recede. If the game is really important, you're going to lose. If you're wildly in love, you're going to lose and you know it. The trick is to keep it from being that important. Be cool. Don't want it that much. Want it less. When you get to where you don't want it at all, then you're more likely to get it. And if you don't get it, you don't care so much."
- Garrison Keillor
Thursday, December 6, 2007
Relaxation, Part II
Last night was another glorious evening of relaxation! After shoveling for what felt like the 20th time, I settled into my favorite chair, with a roaring log in the fireplace, the Christmas tree lights on, lit a Montecristo Series C cigar (great smoke), and enjoyed a steaming hot cup of coffee with peppermint mocha creamer. Ahhhhhh!
"To be able to fill leisure intelligently is the last product of civilization, and at present very few people have reached this level."
- Bertrand Russell
"This art of resting the mind and the power of dismissing from it all care and worry is probably one of the secrets of energy in our great men."
- Captain J.A. Hadfield
"Acquire inner peace and a multitude will find their salvation near you."
- Catherine de Hueck Doherty
Thursday, November 29, 2007
Good News!
I was just informed this morning that Target wants to extend my contract through the end of March, and possibly extend it again later! This is good news, as it is one less thing for me to worry about this holiday season, because my current contract was set to expire at the end of the year and I didn't have anything else lined up yet.
I am also in the process of scheduling my practicum hours beginning in January for observing a School Counselor, and I have several possible leads. I am excited to begin this process of my education!
Tuesday, November 27, 2007
Christmas Wish List
Well, it's that time of year again - time to put together a list of things I want for Christmas (if money were not an object)!
- Lifetime supply of Cohiba Siglo 6 cigars (Cuban, of course)
- All-expense-paid European trip (with stops in Italy, Germany, and Ireland)
- 2008 Jeep Wrangler, Rubicon 4x4
- Log cabin in the mountains, with a lake front view
- To bat cleanup for the Twins, and hit over 50 homers a season
- The winning lottery ticket
Hey, who says that I can't at least dream a little?! Ho, Ho, Ho!
Thursday, November 22, 2007
Thanksgiving Day Quotes
"I drink a great deal. I sleep a little, and I smoke cigar after cigar. That is why I am in two-hundred-percent form!"
- Winston Churchill
"Happyness? A good cigar, a good meal, a good cigar and a good woman - or a bad woman; it depends on how much happiness you can handle."
- George Burns
"It [love] is like a cigar. If it goes out you can light it again, but it never tastes quite the same."
- Lord Wavell
"Eat, drink, be merry, for tomorrow we die."
- Dave Matthews
- Winston Churchill
"Happyness? A good cigar, a good meal, a good cigar and a good woman - or a bad woman; it depends on how much happiness you can handle."
- George Burns
"It [love] is like a cigar. If it goes out you can light it again, but it never tastes quite the same."
- Lord Wavell
"Eat, drink, be merry, for tomorrow we die."
- Dave Matthews
Friday, November 9, 2007
Some Random Thoughts on a Friday Afternoon
Last night was an enjoyable, yet sad evening for me. I sat in my favorite chair, next to a crackling firelog in the fireplace, with an amazing Oliva Series G cigar in one hand and a glass of white wine in the other, watching Adam Sandler and Don Cheadle in Reign Over Me.
The movie was a very powerful one for me, as I found myself struggling right along with Charlie Fineman, played by Adam Sandler. Not that my current sadness compares to his, as he lost his wife and children in one of the airplanes that crashed into the Twin Towers on 9/11, but in a strange way I could still relate to him. I also was drawn to the character played by Liv Tyler, who was his psychiatrist. Other than the fact that Liv is gorgeous, I know why I was drawn to her - she was a "healer," who just wanted to help.
Why the current sadness? I find myself dreading the upcoming holiday season, without a girlfriend once again, and knowing that I probably won't be spending time with any of my family for Christmas. Isn't it funny that even though I have a relationship with the God of the Universe, for that matter the Maker of the Universe, that I can still feel sad and lonely? I do have some really great friends, friends that I'd die for, friends who are like brothers and sisters to me, who are my allies, and a Father who knows me better than I know myself, yet I still struggle with sadness and loneliness...
Anyway, if you haven't seen the movie yet (maybe everyone else has but me), I highly recommend it.
The movie was a very powerful one for me, as I found myself struggling right along with Charlie Fineman, played by Adam Sandler. Not that my current sadness compares to his, as he lost his wife and children in one of the airplanes that crashed into the Twin Towers on 9/11, but in a strange way I could still relate to him. I also was drawn to the character played by Liv Tyler, who was his psychiatrist. Other than the fact that Liv is gorgeous, I know why I was drawn to her - she was a "healer," who just wanted to help.
Why the current sadness? I find myself dreading the upcoming holiday season, without a girlfriend once again, and knowing that I probably won't be spending time with any of my family for Christmas. Isn't it funny that even though I have a relationship with the God of the Universe, for that matter the Maker of the Universe, that I can still feel sad and lonely? I do have some really great friends, friends that I'd die for, friends who are like brothers and sisters to me, who are my allies, and a Father who knows me better than I know myself, yet I still struggle with sadness and loneliness...
Anyway, if you haven't seen the movie yet (maybe everyone else has but me), I highly recommend it.
Thursday, November 8, 2007
Pass the Cheer!
Ho, Ho, Ho, it's that time of year again - Christmas at Starbucks! I am sitting at work, enjoying a grande, non-fat, no whip, Peppermint Mocha (even though I've had a few so far this year, this is the first one in the holiday cup). And according to the TCF temperature on the building outside my office window, it feels like winter with it being only 30 degrees!
Merry Christmas, a little early!
Monday, October 29, 2007
Ahhhhhhhhh!
That loud sound you might have heard this weekend was the sound of me finally relaxing! What an amazing trip we had to the North Shore!
Dan and I drove up early on Friday and got in 9 holes of golf at the Superior National Golf Course - the scenery was awesome, while the golf left something to be desired.
Later that night, Eric, Lisa, and Heidi arrived in time for the evening bonfire. As usual, we were blown away by the beauty of God's creation - the moon was big and bright!
On Saturday, after a wonderful breakfast prepared by Chef Eric, we spent the day in Grand Marais. We sat on the rocks of the shoreline, with the boys enjoying their stogies and conversations, while the girls got caught up on some journaling. We spent the afternoon wandering the Lake Superior shore, poking our heads in some shops, partaking in a great meal, and wrapping up the day with 50% off everything at the Dairy Queen (like we hadn't eaten enough already)! The evening ended with another amazing bonfire prepared for us by Fire Marshall Dan (stop poking at it Heidi)!
Another tasty breakfast was enjoyed by all on Sunday, with one final stop at Temperance River to see the river and waterfall, and Lake Superior up close again before we headed back home. We managed to squeeze in more food with lunch at Grandma's in Duluth! We got home just in time for the start of the Garden Communities' gathering, and we were able to join in at the worship time - I belong to a truly wonderful community of people!
I can't wait until the next time I am Up North again - it's the one place my mind, body, and soul can all fully-relax.
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
What's the Purpose?
"Often, what God does is He places us in a crucible, because He's waiting for that moment where we are prepared for that great calling that is coming. And so maybe you're here tonight and life is tough, maybe you've lost your job, or you've lost your girlfriend, or maybe you've lost your girlfriend to your best friend, so maybe you've lost your girlfriend and your best friend...you've lost your meaning in life.
There are moments in life where everything goes bad, and you wonder, 'is God even paying attention?' But God calls out the prepared. And what you may not realize is that God is forming your character, He is forming your person-hood, He is forging and reshaping and refining who you are. And while you want to make progress forward, God is trying to make progress inward. Because the places that He wants to take you, the journey He wants to invite you on, the pilgrimage He is calling you to, that original life that you long for, is going to require you to step-up to an entirely different level of living. And so that call to greatness requires that we go through a crucible in our lives."
- Erwin McManus, The Call To An Original Life (podcast)
Are you going through some difficult times lately? Have you begun to question God? Do you feel that God has forgotten you? Well, maybe He has another plan in store for you, one that you can't even imagine, one that will totally surprise you when it is revealed. Instead of asking why, we should trust that everything happens for a reason, and know that God loves us enough to bring us through some momentary pain, so that we might enjoy a lifetime of truly living in happiness!
Tuesday, October 23, 2007
The North Shore
Those 3 little words bring such joy to my heart! This Friday, Dan and Heidi, Eric and Lisa, and I are heading north for our annual Fall trip to Schroeder, MN, where we will be staying at our favorite locale - the Temperance Traders Cabins. I can already smell the coffee brewing and the eggs and bacon cooking for Saturday morning's breakfast, along with some caramel rolls from Tobie's in Hinckley!
We'll spend the day on Saturday roaming around Grand Marais, checking out the shops and the shore, and we will end the evening with an amazing bonfire behind our cabin (thanks to "Fire Marshall" Dan), complete with coffee, double-stuffed Oreo's, and many a fine cigar!
There's something about being at the North Shore that brings out God's peace in my life. Work is work, school is getting to be a bit much, and there is no longer a relationship in my life these days, but standing on the edge of Lake Superior will help to wash away all those headaches, hassles, and heartache. I feel closest to God whenever I am in the northeastern part of Minnesota, enjoying His awesome creation. I can't wait until Friday!
"I love to think of nature as an unlimited broadcasting station, through which God speaks to us every hour, if we will only tune in."
- George Washington Carver
Wednesday, October 10, 2007
Friends
I’ve been blessed with many things in life, including these close, personal friends of mine: Lisa, Eric, Heidi, and Dan. I’ve had the great privilege of getting to know them; hearing their stories; discussing their hopes, dreams, and fears; laughing with them, singing with them, praying with them, and sometimes even crying with them.
God, thank you for these allies, and the chance to be a part of their lives.
"Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born."
- Anais Nin
"The better part of one's life consists of his friendships."
- Abraham Lincoln
"No love, no friendship, can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever."
- Francois Mauriac
"Grief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of joy you must have somebody to divide it with."
- Mark Twain
Thursday, September 27, 2007
Fall
What I love about Fall:
The cool, crisp air.
My breath before me.
The ground covered in dew.
My car's rear window defroster.
Shorts and a long sleeve shirt.
Leaves beginning to change color.
A gentle breeze.
The smell of autumn.
A bonfire and a good cigar.
Poker night.
The baseball playoffs.
The first fire of the season in my fireplace, and a good book.
The North Shore.
Trick or treaters.
Turkey.
What makes you come alive this time of year?
The cool, crisp air.
My breath before me.
The ground covered in dew.
My car's rear window defroster.
Shorts and a long sleeve shirt.
Leaves beginning to change color.
A gentle breeze.
The smell of autumn.
A bonfire and a good cigar.
Poker night.
The baseball playoffs.
The first fire of the season in my fireplace, and a good book.
The North Shore.
Trick or treaters.
Turkey.
What makes you come alive this time of year?
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
Love God, Love Others
"Strange is our situation here upon Earth. However, there's one thing that we do know. That man is here for the sake of other men. Above all, for those upon whose smile and well-being our own happiness depends. And also for the countless unknown souls with whoms fate we are connected by a bond of sympathy. "
Albert Einstein
Albert Einstein
9/11
Last night, sitting around a fire, enjoying good conversation, good coffee, and a good cigar, Eric, Lisa, and I found ourselves discussing where we were 6 years ago when we heard the news of the attacks. I remember being at work (HGA architects in the Warehouse District of Minneapolis) and hearing of the news from a co-worker who had just heard about it on their radio. The next thing I remember is a group of us huddling around someones small black and white TV at their cubicle, straining to hear the news reports and to see the footage. The next vivid memory I have is seeing the second tower being hit. The rest of that day is a blur, with vague memories of driving home and watching the news unfold on TV for hours on end, into the next day as well. The rest of the story, as they say, is history. The U.S. has been embroiled in the "war on terror" ever since, losing many brave lives of our soldiers, in addition to those we lost during the attacks.
Where were you on that fateful day? What memories do you have? What memories are you still trying to forget? Has the war affected your life and/or family? Did you draw closer to God, or move farther away from Him?
Where were you on that fateful day? What memories do you have? What memories are you still trying to forget? Has the war affected your life and/or family? Did you draw closer to God, or move farther away from Him?
Sunday, September 9, 2007
Being Green
"God's beautiful earth will not be saved by words or good intentions. It will be saved by humble, anonymous acts like turning off the lights, hanging clothing on the line, bicycling to work, and planting trees. People who are grateful for God's abundant gifts, people of faith who are not afraid to be held accountable for care of his creation, will save it."
J. Matthew Sleeth, "Serve God, Save the Planet"
I'm sorry Kermit, but it is easy being green! There are many simple, effective things that we can do to save the earth, what are you doing?
J. Matthew Sleeth, "Serve God, Save the Planet"
I'm sorry Kermit, but it is easy being green! There are many simple, effective things that we can do to save the earth, what are you doing?
Monday, September 3, 2007
Memories
Today I took a walk down memory lane. This morning I hopped in the Jetta and went for a drive. I found myself in the neighborhood that I grew up in, Seward, in south Minneapolis. First, I drove by the house that I spent my first 20+ years in. The latest owner has done a really nice job of painting the house, and has done some beautiful landscaping with rocks, small trees, and many, many flowers - my Mom would have enjoyed the new yard. But, my brother, his friends, and I would not have been able to play football ("smear the queer") in the yard any longer! Most of the other houses that I remembered from my youth had also gone through a significant face-lift, and the yards all seemed a little bit smaller to me than I remembered them. Also, the trees seemed a lot bigger than when I saw them last, because the block now seemed very tiny, and was dwarfed by many tall, lush tress. I began to wonder about each house, and if the neighbors I once knew still lived there or not.
Next, I drove about 12 blocks away to my elementary school, Seward, and the parkboard that shared the same block, Matthews Park. The moment I parked the car and got out to walk around the park, memories came flooding back to me. The playgrounds have changed a bit, with newer swings and slides, and they've added some grassy areas where once only hot blacktop stood. But, I could still remember running around that playground each day for recess, or when we were finally able to go outside for gym class each Spring. The outdoor pool was still there as well! They have added a nicer iron fence around it, but the whale in the middle of the pool was still spouting a steady stream of water out of his blow hole - good to see some things stay the same! I can remember countless summers spent in that pool, running underneath the stream of water, and even sitting on that poor, old, tired whale. I was surprised to find that the smell of the pool water was a familiar smell from my youth, along with the sound of the stream of water slapping on the pool's surface.
I then found myself wandering over to the basketball courts and the tennis courts. I never did get a chance to play hoops there, because there was always a game or two being played by the older kids, and they never let any of us join them. The nets looked rather short, and I could now touch the rim without a problem - where was a ball when I needed one?! I spent a few summers on that tennis court too, taking lessons from the parkboard, and I got to be a pretty good player for a 10-year old.
The next thing that caught my eye was the sledding hill. What a great time we spent on that hill, sliding down it at breakneck speeds, and then having to walk back up the side of it to get back to the top. The walk up this time wasn't too bad, and there still was a pretty good view from the top. That's when I spied the baseball diamonds. I hadn't stepped foot on them in over 20 years. They are still in as rough a shape as they were back then! I walked to the mound on Field #3, and was instantly brought back to my little league days. This was the mound that I stood on many summers ago, throwing countless hours of batting practice, and eventually giving myself a very sore elbow. I used to have to soak it in ice water after each practice, and I could still remember how cold it felt at first, and then how numb it became shortly thereafter. Standing there in my flip-flops, I went through the motions of throwing a few pitches - I felt oddly enough at ease, like I never left that place. I hope no one was watching me, and wondering what that idiot was doing!
After taking in as much as my brain could handle, I got back into the car and continued my drive. I found a very nice cafe that was in a building that once housed a grocery store that was close by my school. The cafe is called the Clicquot Club Cafe (www.clicquotclubcafe.com), named after the mural that was painted on the side of the building many, many years before. The store that used to be there only let a few people in it at a time, but was now full of happy, talkative diners. I ordered my sandwich and iced tea and sat outside in the area known as "the garden" - a handful of adirondack chairs surrounding a small pond and waterfall, with many plants and trees. It was a great place to sit and reflect on my day.
Even though many things have changed in my old neighborhood, and many people have come and gone, it still felt nice to be able to walk back into my past, and to relive countless memories that had been stored away in the depths of my mind. Thank you God for a nice time spent in thought and memories this morning.
Next, I drove about 12 blocks away to my elementary school, Seward, and the parkboard that shared the same block, Matthews Park. The moment I parked the car and got out to walk around the park, memories came flooding back to me. The playgrounds have changed a bit, with newer swings and slides, and they've added some grassy areas where once only hot blacktop stood. But, I could still remember running around that playground each day for recess, or when we were finally able to go outside for gym class each Spring. The outdoor pool was still there as well! They have added a nicer iron fence around it, but the whale in the middle of the pool was still spouting a steady stream of water out of his blow hole - good to see some things stay the same! I can remember countless summers spent in that pool, running underneath the stream of water, and even sitting on that poor, old, tired whale. I was surprised to find that the smell of the pool water was a familiar smell from my youth, along with the sound of the stream of water slapping on the pool's surface.
I then found myself wandering over to the basketball courts and the tennis courts. I never did get a chance to play hoops there, because there was always a game or two being played by the older kids, and they never let any of us join them. The nets looked rather short, and I could now touch the rim without a problem - where was a ball when I needed one?! I spent a few summers on that tennis court too, taking lessons from the parkboard, and I got to be a pretty good player for a 10-year old.
The next thing that caught my eye was the sledding hill. What a great time we spent on that hill, sliding down it at breakneck speeds, and then having to walk back up the side of it to get back to the top. The walk up this time wasn't too bad, and there still was a pretty good view from the top. That's when I spied the baseball diamonds. I hadn't stepped foot on them in over 20 years. They are still in as rough a shape as they were back then! I walked to the mound on Field #3, and was instantly brought back to my little league days. This was the mound that I stood on many summers ago, throwing countless hours of batting practice, and eventually giving myself a very sore elbow. I used to have to soak it in ice water after each practice, and I could still remember how cold it felt at first, and then how numb it became shortly thereafter. Standing there in my flip-flops, I went through the motions of throwing a few pitches - I felt oddly enough at ease, like I never left that place. I hope no one was watching me, and wondering what that idiot was doing!
After taking in as much as my brain could handle, I got back into the car and continued my drive. I found a very nice cafe that was in a building that once housed a grocery store that was close by my school. The cafe is called the Clicquot Club Cafe (www.clicquotclubcafe.com), named after the mural that was painted on the side of the building many, many years before. The store that used to be there only let a few people in it at a time, but was now full of happy, talkative diners. I ordered my sandwich and iced tea and sat outside in the area known as "the garden" - a handful of adirondack chairs surrounding a small pond and waterfall, with many plants and trees. It was a great place to sit and reflect on my day.
Even though many things have changed in my old neighborhood, and many people have come and gone, it still felt nice to be able to walk back into my past, and to relive countless memories that had been stored away in the depths of my mind. Thank you God for a nice time spent in thought and memories this morning.
Tuesday, August 28, 2007
Hard Call
Thanks to Jamie's recommendation, I am now reading John McCain's latest book, "Hard Call: Great Decisions and the Extraordinary People Who Made Them." The book describes great decisions made throughout history, telling of those individuals who possessed composure, wisdom, and intellect in the face of life's toughest dilemmas. The first chapter is about two of my sporting heros, Branch Rickey and Jackie Robinson. Branch Rickey's goal was to break baseball's color barrier, and he chose to have Jackie Robinson be the player to do it. I have long been a fan of the old Brooklyn Dodgers, and have read many books describing their history, their players, and the fans that they have touched. In the spring of 1947, Jackie Robinson became a part of their amazing history.
"Branch was the man who built two of baseball's greatest dynasties [the St. Louis Cardinals and the Brooklyn Dodgers], but he will always be remembered for the decision he made so skillfully to bring America's game to all Americans, to do something as big outside the ballpark as it was inside. He had seen something in Jackie Robinson that was greater than his athletic prowess. He had looked for a great baseball player with principles, courage, and dignity. The man he found had those qualities, as well as a temper he really didn't mind showing when provoked. He was a brave and driven man, but an often angry one. And Rickey saw something else in Jackie Robinson that maybe even Jackie wasn't sure he possessed. He saw a man with the courage and strength to maintain his composure under the most trying circumstances, a man whose pride could become a self-effacing dignity. He saw the man who would represent on the field and off the ideal American, and who could make integration, and long-delayed justice for his race, heroic to white America. They shook hands on the deal and made their country a better place."
John McCain, "Hard Call"
What hard call have you had to make in the past? What difficult decision are you now facing? Do you lean into other's advice when you face these challenges, or do you go it alone? What part does God play in the process?
"Branch was the man who built two of baseball's greatest dynasties [the St. Louis Cardinals and the Brooklyn Dodgers], but he will always be remembered for the decision he made so skillfully to bring America's game to all Americans, to do something as big outside the ballpark as it was inside. He had seen something in Jackie Robinson that was greater than his athletic prowess. He had looked for a great baseball player with principles, courage, and dignity. The man he found had those qualities, as well as a temper he really didn't mind showing when provoked. He was a brave and driven man, but an often angry one. And Rickey saw something else in Jackie Robinson that maybe even Jackie wasn't sure he possessed. He saw a man with the courage and strength to maintain his composure under the most trying circumstances, a man whose pride could become a self-effacing dignity. He saw the man who would represent on the field and off the ideal American, and who could make integration, and long-delayed justice for his race, heroic to white America. They shook hands on the deal and made their country a better place."
John McCain, "Hard Call"
What hard call have you had to make in the past? What difficult decision are you now facing? Do you lean into other's advice when you face these challenges, or do you go it alone? What part does God play in the process?
Thursday, August 23, 2007
State Fair
The Great Minnesota Get-Together kicks off today! I am taking a vacation day from work tomorrow (Friday) and spending the day at the Fair. It sounds like Eric is going to be joining me, and possibly Dan, but only if he isn't working that day.
Every year, I spend at least one, if not two days, at the Fair. It's been a tradition of mine for the last handful of years. Growing up, my family never went, but in my adult years I have made it a priority of mine.
The day is usually spent eating way too much food, and wandering around the fairgrounds checking out the booths and exhibits. Whether it's a breakfast burrito, cheese curds, pronto pups or corn dogs, fresh lemonade, a chocolate shake from the dairy barn, mini donuts, all the milk you can drink for a buck, and Sweet Martha's chocolate chip cookies, food is the highlight of my trip!
Do you enjoy the Fair also? What's your favorite food(s)? What is the must have/must do event for you? I can already smell the food, and I am getting very hungry!
Wednesday, August 15, 2007
Patience
I have never been good at waiting for something. Whether it's waiting for microwave popcorn to finish popping, the toaster to finish toasting my bread, or for the clock to creep along until lunch time and then for the end of the work day. Each Spring I cannot wait for the baseball season to begin, or for that matter for the snow to melt first. Whenever there's an exciting event on my calendar, I cannot wait for that day to come. I currently am in graduate school working towards my masters in school counseling and I cannot wait for classes to be done, even though I still have almost two years left, so that I can begin working in a school. These days, I'm having a really hard time waiting for a phone call from a special person in my life.
I can never understand why it is that I have to wait for something that I want - I want what I want, when I want it. However, I think God has been teaching me to trust in Him first, while I wait for the things I want most.
"The end of a matter is better than its beginning, and patience is better than pride."
Ecclesiastes 7:8
"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness..."
Galations 5:22
"[B]eing strengthened with all power according to his glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience, and joyfully giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified you to share in the inheritance of the saints in the kingdom of light."
Colossians 1:11-12
I can never understand why it is that I have to wait for something that I want - I want what I want, when I want it. However, I think God has been teaching me to trust in Him first, while I wait for the things I want most.
"The end of a matter is better than its beginning, and patience is better than pride."
Ecclesiastes 7:8
"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness..."
Galations 5:22
"[B]eing strengthened with all power according to his glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience, and joyfully giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified you to share in the inheritance of the saints in the kingdom of light."
Colossians 1:11-12
Wednesday, August 8, 2007
Wildness
"Wildness! We've run out of it, even up here in Alaska.
People need to be reminded that the world is unsafe and unpredictable, and at the drop of a hat they can lose everything, just like that. You couldn't have predicted that. I do it to remind them that chaos is out there, and he's lurking beyond the horizon, that's why. Well that, and sometimes you just gotta do something bad just to know you're alive..."
Chris, Northern Exposure (1990's TV drama)
People need to be reminded that the world is unsafe and unpredictable, and at the drop of a hat they can lose everything, just like that. You couldn't have predicted that. I do it to remind them that chaos is out there, and he's lurking beyond the horizon, that's why. Well that, and sometimes you just gotta do something bad just to know you're alive..."
Chris, Northern Exposure (1990's TV drama)
Monday, August 6, 2007
Shakespeare
"Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:
O no! it is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wandering bark,
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.
Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle's compass come:
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
If this be error and upon me proved,
I never writ, nor no man ever loved."
William Shakespeare, Sonnet 116
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:
O no! it is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wandering bark,
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.
Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle's compass come:
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
If this be error and upon me proved,
I never writ, nor no man ever loved."
William Shakespeare, Sonnet 116
Wednesday, August 1, 2007
One Step at a Time
It won't be easy - nothing that is worthwhile ever is. Whether it's rebuilding walls or relationships, there are difficulties ahead, but also many rewards to be gained.
"[B]ut I said to the king, 'May the king live forever! Why should my face not look sad when the city where my fathers are buried lies in ruins, and its gates have been destroyed by fire?'"
Nehemiah 2:3
"[B]ut I said to the king, 'May the king live forever! Why should my face not look sad when the city where my fathers are buried lies in ruins, and its gates have been destroyed by fire?'"
Nehemiah 2:3
Tuesday, July 31, 2007
Friday, July 20, 2007
Being Remembered
Whenever there's a major sporting event, such as this weekend's British Open golf championship, I am often reminded of those sports figures from the past. The exploits of Bobby Jones and the colorful antics of Walter Hagen in golf; "The Georgia Peach" (Ty Cobb) and "The Sultan of Swat" (Babe Ruth) of baseball fame; the Green Bay Packers' excitable Vince Lombardi and the Dallas Cowboys' stoic Tom Landry, to name but a few. I have always been intrigued by the sports heroes and scapegoats that came before us, and in knowing that our current superstars and lovable losers will someday be nothing more than a name from the past, to our future generations.
When our time on earth is done, what mark will you have left behind? What will you be remembered for? Did your impact on someones life effect them in such a way that you are being talked about years after your passing? Let's lead a life that is similar to Jesus', in that He is still being talked about, adored, and worshiped 2,000+ years after He last walked the earth.
When our time on earth is done, what mark will you have left behind? What will you be remembered for? Did your impact on someones life effect them in such a way that you are being talked about years after your passing? Let's lead a life that is similar to Jesus', in that He is still being talked about, adored, and worshiped 2,000+ years after He last walked the earth.
Wednesday, July 18, 2007
Recognizing the Shepherd
"I tell you the truth, the man who does not enter the sheep pen by the gate, but climbs in by some other way, is a thief and a robber. The man who enters by the gate is the shepherd of his sheep. The watchman opens the gate for him, and the sheep listen to his voice. He calls his own sheep by name and leads them out. When he has brought out all his own, he goes on ahead of them, and his sheep follow him because they know his voice. But they will never follow a stranger; in fact, they will run away from him because they do not recognize a stranger's voice." Jesus used this figure of speech, but they did not understand what he was telling them.
Therefore Jesus said again, "I tell you the truth, I am the gate for the sheep. All who ever came before me were thieves and robbers, but the sheep did not listen to them. I am the gate; whoever enters through me will be saved. He will come in and go out, and find pasture. The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full."
John 10:1-10
Hear, obey, and follow.
Therefore Jesus said again, "I tell you the truth, I am the gate for the sheep. All who ever came before me were thieves and robbers, but the sheep did not listen to them. I am the gate; whoever enters through me will be saved. He will come in and go out, and find pasture. The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full."
John 10:1-10
Hear, obey, and follow.
Monday, July 16, 2007
The Kingdom of God
Once, having been asked by the Pharisees when the kingdom of God would come, Jesus replied, "The kingdom of God does not come with your careful observation, nor will people say, 'Here it is,' or 'There it is,' because the kingdom of God is within you."
Then he said to his disciples, "The time is coming when you will long to see one of the days of the Son of Man, but you will not see it. Men will tell you, 'There he is!' or 'Here he is!' Do not go running off after them. For the Son of Man in his day will be like the lightning, which flashes and lights up the sky from one end to the other. But first he must suffer many things and be rejected by this generation."
Luke 17:20-25
Then he said to his disciples, "The time is coming when you will long to see one of the days of the Son of Man, but you will not see it. Men will tell you, 'There he is!' or 'Here he is!' Do not go running off after them. For the Son of Man in his day will be like the lightning, which flashes and lights up the sky from one end to the other. But first he must suffer many things and be rejected by this generation."
Luke 17:20-25
Wednesday, July 11, 2007
Highly Recommend
I'm not one to often recommend places to eat or to visit, but last night Aimee and I had dinner at Rice Paper (www.ricepaperrestaurant.com), an Asian Fusion restaurant in the Linden Hills neighborhood (right next to Lake Harriet). I would highly recommend you checking it out. We had the Shrimp Spring Rolls for an appetizer, and we each had the Song Huong Beef Plate for dinner - the food might be a bit expensive, but the taste was absolutely amazing!
There are also many neat places to shop in the Linden Hills neighborhood (www.linden-hills.com), including Bibelot (http://bibelotshops.com/Store_Linden.html), which was closed by the time we were done eating but just by looking in their window I could see that it's a place that I'll go back to soon. There is also a great children's bookstore called Wild Rumpus (www.wildrumpusbooks.com/NASApp/store/IndexJsp), with many different live animals wandering around the store, or in cages - a great experience for kids of all ages.
Be sure to check out Rice Paper and the Linden Hills neighborhood - you won't be dissapointed!
There are also many neat places to shop in the Linden Hills neighborhood (www.linden-hills.com), including Bibelot (http://bibelotshops.com/Store_Linden.html), which was closed by the time we were done eating but just by looking in their window I could see that it's a place that I'll go back to soon. There is also a great children's bookstore called Wild Rumpus (www.wildrumpusbooks.com/NASApp/store/IndexJsp), with many different live animals wandering around the store, or in cages - a great experience for kids of all ages.
Be sure to check out Rice Paper and the Linden Hills neighborhood - you won't be dissapointed!
Thursday, July 5, 2007
Fathers
Fathers. We've all had them at one point in our lives. Some have had close relationships with their fathers, while others have had difficult relationships. Nonetheless, fathers play a vital role in our lives.
This past week I got to see an awesome father/child relationship modeled to me in Aimee and her dad Wayne. Aimee called me at work on Tuesday to say that her dad had a heart attack, and was in the hospital. When I got to the hospital later that afternoon, I saw a room full of people who clearly loved Wayne - Aimee's mom, Aimee, Aimee's sister and brother-in-law, and Aimee's little niece. I was also able to watch the July 4th fireworks from Abbott Northwestern hospital with Aimee and her dad last night. It was very apparent to me the love that Aimee has for her father, and the love he has for his daughter.
Yesterday, I also got to spend the day with my dad at our cabin. Aimee was going to join us, but obviously had more important matters to attend to with her dad. My dad and I enjoyed a bbq lunch, went for a pontoon ride, and sat on the dock just talking for over an hour. My relationship with my dad has always been strained, and has only gotten more difficult after my mom passed away almost 12 years ago. However, yesterday was a good day spent with him. He and I talked non-stop (we both possess the gift of gab)! We also had a few close moments together when we talked about mom, and her absence from our lives. I'm going to post a few pictures of he and I sometime soon.
Fathers. Whether you love them, or don't always like them, they are an important part of our lives. Be sure to hug your dad sometime soon, and tell him how you feel about him. If you can't do that, than at least be thankful for him today. If that's too hard, than be blessed knowing your Heavenly Father cares for you.
Wednesday, June 27, 2007
Chuck's Big Adventure!
I got my tattoo last night! Aimee and I went to Saint Sabrina's in Uptown for my appointment with "Bleach," who was a great guy (he was nice enough to tolerate some photos being taken while he worked). He first applied the template, and then began putting on the ink. It wasn't too painful, but it hurt a bit when he was working on the smaller details. Overall, it took only about an hour for it to be completed. I need to keep it covered for a few days while I'm at work because I have to wear a dress shirt, but it should be healed very soon. Here are some pictures of the event:
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